He's home.

[fatrockstar]

Yesterday I arrived at work to find a card addressed to Grady on my desk. It contained well wishes and a large sum of cash, but no signature. I am immensely grateful for the windfall, but I wish I knew who to thank. The anonymous nature of the gift leads me to assume that it was someone who knew me. I usually don't receive such large gifts comfortably even though they are greatly appreciated. Whoever you are, thank you!

Later the same day a man came by my office, introduced himself, and contributed his own sum to the Grady fund. I am touched by his generosity. Grady doesn't realize it, but he is touched, too. Thank you, Don, for your donation!

Both of these donations took a huge chunk out of Grady's hospital bill, which was a little larger than the estimate.

After work I went to SVS to pick up Grady and get a primer on how to take care of him and his feeding tube. They gave me a LOT of stuff, including extra syringes, stoppers, gauze, and antiseptic. Grady did not want to sit still for the demonstration of what went where. I couldn't tell if that was the process or the environment.

I got home and Ethan & Tristan were there having dinner. Ethan's parrot, Flea, was hanging out as well. In an attempt to feed Grady in a cleanup-friendly environment I brought him into the dining room, but that proved to be a poor choice. There was too much activity and noise going on in there for it to go well, PLUS I had not prepared anything in advance like I probably should have. It was like trying to thread a needle with a sack of wet hamsters in your arms. Not fun. Grady got sick in response, so I put him in a quiet bedroom to calm down before trying again. The next attempt went a little easier.

Even though I had set up a nook for him to hide in, he decided he was happier under the bed. I don't like dragging him out from under there, but I did this morning to change his dressings and see how he was doing. He was very wiggly during that. Note to self: Have even more of the materials ready-to-go when changing the dressing next time. Once calm, I gave him his meds without incident. He practically napped through the whole thing. Same with the feeding an hour later. If he's calm, things go okay. If he's held, he will protest. We're not out of the woods yet.

I must have checked on him one too many times this morning, because after his post-breakfast feeding he moved to a box in the corner of the music room to hide. We have an agreement that I don't mess with him there. He is safe until I have to feed him again.

I still have hope. Next week I will have the house to myself for several days while Ethan is in Hawai'i for a songwriting conference. Keep your fingers crossed that most of his improvement will be during that time.

Comments

[dustin-00.livejournal.com]

Without being specific, you could send an email to your team saying thank you for the wonderful surprise card and gift to Grady.

That way, Anon knows you received it.

If anyone asks what the gift was, just tell 'em it was catnip.

[winifred.livejournal.com]

I could do that, but the only people on my team who know about Grady are two managers I work with, and only one of them knows that he was in for surgery. He donated on his own a couple of days ago.

[kistha.livejournal.com]

Calm is good for feeding, and Tayet would sit through it just fine. Ankhet, we always had to have a spotter with, since she didn't like it at all. Glad it's going well, and hope that he improves markedly in the next week!

[nessainwe.livejournal.com]

Im glad that he's home and doing a little better :) Hopefully it's only up from here :)

You are most welcome.

[(Anonymous)]

The $500.00 was given anonymously because we did not want you to feel any obligation or guilt whatsoever. Enjoy it without question. I will be sending a pic to you from an anonymous email account to prove my identity.